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The Methodist Home for Children and Youth has been
serving children at the Macon Campus since the early
1870s, almost 140 years. During that period over 10,
000 children have had the benefit of care and love,
something that many of us, born into more fortunate
circumstances, often take for granted. Today the Home
operates 5 sites in Americus, Columbus, St. Mary's,
and Valdosta, along with the Macon location.
On April 26, from 10 a.m. to 2:30 p.m., the Home
will host Celebration Day. An important fund raiser
for the home, it will be a day filled with fun and
fare, with BBQ, fried chicken, boiled peanuts, a bake
sale, and lots of children's activities. A silent
auction will be held from 10 a.m. until noon, and a
live auction will take place from noon until 2 p.m.
Such items as hunting vacations and quilts will be
sold.
Quilts serve a special purpose at the Home. Many
children arrive with not much more than the clothes on
their back. Dr. Steve Rumford, President and CEO since
1984, came up with a unique first step at correcting
this problem. Each child, upon arrival, gets presented
with his or her very own quilt, sewn by volunteers
across the South Georgia Conference.
Dr. Rumford figured out how he could solve another
age-old problem at the same time. He found that the
first exposure the children had to the "Head
Master" was usually one of a disciplinary nature.
This placed a huge negative impression on the child,
similar to "going to see the principal". To
solve this problem, when the child first arrives, Dr.
Rumford himself presents the quilt and discusses with
the child how important he or she is in the eyes of
God and his new Home family.
It just takes a little time with Dr. Rumford to see
how the positive environment of the Home is being
fostered. The product of a broken home himself, Dr.
Rumford is dedicated to the Home's mission. Written on
one of the stained glass windows, the mission
statement drives all those involved. "In response
to Christ and the Church, the mission of the Home is
to be a model agency that restores childhoods,
strengthens families, and cultivates a people-building
organization."
The Home has been remarkably successful at the
mission of restoring childhoods, especially
considering that many of the children who come there
have failed at five or more prior placements.
It's not hard to find living examples of the
success. "Buddy" Chase, a resident of the
Home, was elected Student Body President of Lanier
High School in 1957. He went on to earn his PHD at
Columbia University and in 1985 became the first
alumnus to serve on the Home's Board of Trustees.
Today Dr. Edwin Chase is Director of the Home's Family
Institute and has written a book soon to be published.
Patches of Quilt details individual stories of how the
home has impacted the lives of the children.
Linton Holleman discussed how the Home had impacted
his life. With a degree in respiratory therapy, Linton
now spends most of his working time in sales and
marketing for Rutland Medical supply. "Without a
doubt, the Home saved my life," Linton said.
"My parents were the partying type with multiple
marriages. I became the unwanted product of one of
those marriages. When I came here in my early teens, I
was into heavy metal music, had already started
drinking and smoking, and was hanging with a tough
crowd. But at the Home, we went to church all the
time. Rev. Lawrence became the father I never had. All
of a sudden at 14, the guys I hung around with
changed."
Linton described the positive influence the
privilege system employed by the Home had on him. All
who arrive start with Level III privileges, and the
level increased or decreased based on behavior. The
reward based program could be used as a model, Linton
believes. His faith is now very important to him, and
he credits the Home with changing his life.
The Home has an interesting history. The most
recent book on the subject, Wounded Souls, Dried
Tears, and Quilts was written by Gary Lister of
Cochran. During the summer of 1997, Dr. Laudis H.
Langford, known affectionately by the children as
"Daddy Rick" came to Cochran UMC to speak.
Anyone who has had the opportunity to hear "Daddy
Rick", the President of the Home's Foundation,
speak can attest to the conviction and power of the
man's love for what he does. As a result, Gary took
his visiting preacher, Reverend John Tenner, who was
on a pulpit exchange program from England to visit the
Home. During the visit, the idea of the book was born.
The book details some of the early history of the
Home, and outlines the memories of three of the Homes
inhabitants. Proceeds of the book are donated to the
Home. It can be purchased online at Amazon. com.
The Methodist Children's Home for Children and
Youth is one of the best kept secret treasures of the
Middle Georgia area. After one visit, it tugs at your
heart to want to help. So tune in next month as His
Voice covers the Celebration Day on April 26 and
brings you more personal insights into life at the
Home through the story of LaShanda James, prior
resident and currently a Human Resources staff member
at the Home. We look forward to your support of the
event. For more information, call 478-751-2800.
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